The other day I was working on writing some content for one of our websites and came across a guy who was on a forum complaining about how his wife thought he was just messing around on the internet and was never going to see anything from all of his effort. After talking to the guy for a couple of minutes, I began thinking how difficult trying to attain MLM success would be if you didn’t have support from the people that mean the most to you. At the end of the day, most people’s “WHY” has something to do with their families.
As if it isn’t already hard enough to deal with the complications of generating and maintaining an online presence, you have to deal with the people that are a big part of your reason for putting in the long days telling you how what your working so hard on will never work. The following are the 3 biggest reasons I feel that people have trouble with support on the home front and can hinder them from ever achieving MLM success.
First, a lot of people don’t involve their significant others in the home business process from start to finish. The storyline goes like this: person gets excited and joins an MLM, they are told that a web presence is the best way to grow the business, they go to work spending additional hours building their business and spending less time with the family, money doesn’t come in immediately, spouse feels neglected. I might have missed a few steps, but you get the idea. Building a successful business takes commitment from the person involved and an understanding spouse, especially if they won’t be participating.
Next, their is still a stigma surrounding the MLM industry in general. The spouse could go to work and tell some friends about what the other spouse is doing and get some negative feedback from the circle of influence their. The feedback can result in an instant negative light on the work being done because of someones opinion who likely has no basis for giving an opinion at all. It doesn’t have to be work, but could be anywhere or anyone to give the other spouse an inkling of doubt.
Money is probably the biggest sticking point with any issues that come up about building an MLM business. The industry, as a whole, does a great job selling people on the idea of making a million bucks in 6 months, which can be realistic with the right circumstances, but highly unlikely. Now, the spouse is putting in time to build a business that isn’t generating cash immediately like was perceived and the other might view it as a waste of time or worse, taking time away from them and/or the family.
What do you think? What are the main reasons why a lot of people aren’t receiving spousal support? I was intrigued by the conversation I had with that gentleman because I have know idea what it would be like to not have the full support of my wife. I am sure that attaining the success in my MLM I am after would undoubtedly be more difficult.


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Hey Eric,
This post is funny and true! Everything you mentioned is true…Guess what I’ve seen it the other way around as well. Husband’s not supporting their wives in their home based business.
I think it is crazy to shoot someone who has a dream!
Chat with you later…
Josh
Hi Eric,
Like you, I’m also lucky to have a supportive spouse.
In fact, my wife actually does the business with me — so I am extremely lucky!
Poor guy, I can imagine it makes it REAL tough to have his wife against him.
Ever seen “The Pursuit of Happyness”? Man, talk about persevering!
Hey Eric
I like being very up-front and direct. I my opinion the way to deal with the situation is to inform the spouse of all the good and bad points regarding MLM from the outset.
Keep the spouse up-to-date with what is going on with your business.
Be her influential guide before the nay-sayers get their claws into them.
Communication, communication, communication! Inform them before they get falsely informed!
Dwayne
Man, oh man,
I barely got through reading this for laughing out loud. My wife had to actually come over and see what I was laughing at.
You make some great points here. I don’t know where I would be without the full support of my wife. Though early on she was against mortgaging the house to go to a convention (just kidding).
Sometimes just getting the love/respect equation in a marriage right makes all the difference in support. The closer two people become, the more likely they are to have faith in one another.
Hey Eric,
I have to say I know quit a few distributors that have their partner on their back to quit because they can’t see the “dollars”!
Fortunately i am blessed with a supportive family that have backed me on all of my ventures.
It is hard work for those guys. I guess it is one of the challenges of this business!
Hey there Eric,
Great way to put it. I like your analogy here and choice of title.
It’s great to have that certain someone that supports you. They share that vision and that will help you strengthen the results.
Talk to you later,
Jerome Ratliff